My dears it is a sad fact that a heart, when broken, puts its owner through torments that no-one should have to endure. Time and again I see the effects of this misery on someone who has been treated cavalierly and even brutally by someone they love and trusted with their hearts. I am often told of people who can no longer sleep, eat properly, think clearly and for whom life has been filled with blackest fears and sorrows.
I have known of one young thing that drove into a wall because his sweetheart abandoned him. Our hearts cannot cope with this seeming betrayal. This young man died on impact and the intensity of the grief people feel in these circumstances is never to be underestimated. It can knock a person’s confidence, their feelings of self worth, and take away all their pleasure in life, making it a heavy burden to carry.
So for those in this situation, my heart goes out to you my dears, serious thinking and serious determination must be employed, you must not let your love’s actions make you think you should betray yourself and cast yourself into oblivion or allow yourself to crumble.
Not only will this misery not be beneficial to your love spell, when your love returns to you, do you want them to be overcome with desire by you, or to think ‘what a mess,’ and assume they were right to leave? They will hardly pity you because you are feeling misery, they are more likely to see unhappiness and not want any part of it. People are drawn to the happy and rarely leave a happy person.
So I do want you to all take me very seriously now, because these measures will help your love spells speed up and also they will put you into a better place to cope when your love returns. They will also help you bear the interim period. Firstly, if you are able bodied, it is imperative that you begin an exercise regime. Some may jeer, not sleeping or eating and worrying yourselves sick hardly puts you in the mood for rigorous exercise, but this will be medicinal for you, to your whole system, the heart included. If you have never exercised before start off slowly, go to a gym perhaps, get guidance, but find ways to get that heart rate up at least three times a week safely.
The feel good chemicals this will produce in your body after twenty minutes of rigorous exercise will flood your system and hugely buoy up your spirits. Next, see to it that you eat a good healthy diet, and get plenty of sleep. You want to look your best for love do you not? But even more importantly you are saving your health and heart so that you have the opportunity to be happy once more.
Another thing that you must do is to get out, do not isolate yourselves out of misery. Once you’ve started exercising which will help you to eat and sleep better, you must return to socializing when you can, meeting new people and doing nice things will all help your love spells because it allows you to be distracted and so more positive.
Another step you can take is to set aside time every day, to daydream and imagine the happiness you will enjoy once your love spell results have manifested, this will help fuel your love spells speed and soothe you too. Now my dears, always know that it is an old truth but still a truth that the morning does follow night, and you will be happy again, remember our young friend that drove into a wall because his heart was broken, and for him, and yourselves determine that you will survive, you will succeed and you will be happy, no-one will stop you, and my dears with this regimen and love spells you will be, very happy once more.