There has been occasions when one or two friends have come to me in the past, asking for love spells and I’ve had to say no and offer them a nice piece of cake instead. My reasons for saying no were simple, these friends of mine wanted love spells cast for all the wrong reasons. And of course, as such the love spells would have been less likely to work and not have been a happy idea for either party.
So what are the wrong reasons for wanting a love spell? I’ve known people who wanted to be reunited with their young men and women so that they could get wreak vengeance. So that their former love would be at their emotional mercy and they could harm them, viciously, cruelly wound their feelings as they have been wounded. I even knew of a girl who wanted a love spell, to be reunited with her young man, so that she could then leave him. This is utter folly and nonsense and nor would the universe help such a motive be realized nor any thinking witch spend her time aiding such foolish wickedness. When young people are, in the vulgar term ‘dumped,’ their pride of course takes a battering, they are deeply hurt to their cores and wounded beyond measure and anger is an understandable and natural result. But anyone who wishes magic to aid them in causing harm is in my book wicked and deserves a good spank. No-one should ask for a holy blessing and then use it for evil, and harming anyone, at anytime, under any pretext, no matter how hurt we may be, is seeking evil.
And evil having the nature that it does, always turns on those that have employed it. Because we have been hurt does not mean this wound should be allowed to change us for the worse. We must learn to take our pain and use it to construct something better, not only of our situation but of ourselves. The man who is knocked down but gets up and fights anyway, fights for the good he believes in, is worthy of our admiration, he has become a better and stronger man. But the man who cherishes his pain and broods upon it, to use it as a weapon to harm those he loved or others, has allowed the temptations of evil into his soul and will be all the worse and more miserable for it and deservedly so.
So let your anger run it’s course if you have been hurt by your love, but do not feed it, do not try to sustain it, or it will grow inside you and not only harm those you say you loved, it will harm you too making you bitter, far more unhappy and wretched. ‘Love is not love that alters when it alteration finds,’ as it is written, so you who are hurt and angry use that energy to find ways to heal yourself, for exercise, for work projects, helping others even worse off than yourself, but never let it fester and harm you with a far greater evil than anyone else could ever inflict.
Another woeful reason for having a love spell cast is for vanity or jealousy. It does occur that people request love spells merely to draw someone in and spite a rival. This is not only silly, it is self destructive. For in the unlikely event that your wish would be granted, and you receive your results, you will have burdened yourself with someone whom you can never really love and who will never really care for you, the worst of relationships will be yours, gall and wormwood will be your lot.
If you notice I am saying that if you request love spells for any reason but love, from any motive but love for another, then you are storing up future hurts and pains for yourself. Love alone, not lust, nor desire, is the only good reason to ask for a reuniting love spell or any love spell. If you have sexual problems than that is a sex spell not a love spell to be precise. But love spells are for those who love and work only truly well for those who love and spells do indeed live off and are fuelled by your love for this person. It is your love that gives love spells strength and endurance.
When you feel love for them, the love spell feels like it’s had a good cup of tea and bun, it feels refreshed. So you can see why I say, clean all malice, anger, and wishes for evil vengeance from your heart and question before you seek a true love spell. And when you know that your motives are based upon real love, deep and enduring, you will succeed my dears, love is the greatest force in the universe and it is at your command. Cherish it, feel it, and let no unhappy thoughts inspired by ego or pride mar it or the happy love spell results, which love will certainly bring you.