My dears, many a young person has come to me grieving over a lost love. Their heart is broken and they are in despair. This is a very sad situation, both to witness and to endure. Of course many of these young people have love spells cast to repair their hearts and loves. But sometimes love spells take more than merely enduring while waiting for results.
Sometimes love spells take great patience on behalf of the young person and strength of mind. Your witch will often try to help you cope as best she can, but she cannot beguile your hours and dance the fandango with you while you wait. The most she can do is stand by, get on with her work, and send you reassurance when you need it. However there are many strategies that you my dears can use to help your love spell situation.
I once knew the daughter of an older friend, before she emigrated to the USA and this girl, Miranda was in a fearful state. Her young man had run off with a bus conductress he had met on his way to the office. His ticket was one way, or so it seemed. My young friend pulled her hair, refused to eat, smashed the gifts he’d given her and started behaving recklessly.
Now this young girl was of a disposition that is often produced with too much doting from parents. She wanted everything to suit her immediately or she had tantrums, the girl in short was spoilt. Her young man, in my mind, showed excellent good sense by going off with a clippy. But Miranda was suffering badly, and it did touch me to hear her show some real feeling for someone other than herself, when she told me that she worried for his future.
Some may have seen this as a veiled threat against him, but I think I saw some real care. So I decided to help and of course cast one of my special love spells. Miranda was I was told, soothed by this for a day or two, but then the hysterics and tantrums, screaming and crying began again. I knew that no love spell for Miranda could work fast as she had, even as a young girl, the face of a camel, teeth and manners to match. This would be hard, the love spell had a huge task on it’s hands, so I set about trying to help Miranda find the right path to love spell success.
Miranda did not work, she had an allowance and spent her days shopping and socialising, or had done before her young man left her. My pal told me that at this time her daughter stayed mainly locked in her room, from which loud sobbing and occasional crashes could be heard. Sometimes she would accept a dinner tray from her mother, other times she merely cursed when anyone intruded into her private grief. She would answer the phone to me, and sob down the receiver, but she would see no-one.
So wearing what was then a very fashionable but stout hat, and a good tweed skirt, I felt ready for battle and went to see the girl. I shouted her down when she said most unspeakable things about my parentage on my demanding to be allowed admittance to her holy sanctum, her bedroom. She eventually opened the door, allowed me in and I made way and saw the devastation of her room. A whirlwind striking it could only have given it order. I got her to sit down, shoved a bun from my basket at her, told her to eat and made her listen. The advice I gave her, I highly suggest all you my dears should also employ forthwith.
Firstly, it is no good skulking at home, love spells need freedom from worries and a heart that doesn’t weigh them down. So Miranda was told to wash her face and put on a nice frock. She looked at me as if disbelieving, I gave her one of my looks and tamely as a lamb she went to bathe and dress. I inspected her, not a pretty sight but one does what one can with the material available. I then took her to lunch at a very nice restaurant in the nearest town.
Over lunch I told Miranda that I had got her a little job to fill her hours as a model for an exclusive fashion store which was run by a dear pal of mine. Miranda baulked, I was stern, it was settled. I told her that her moping and tears would help no-one and certainly not speed his return. Miranda was all eyes and soon settled down, she must, I advised distract herself, by all and every means safe and healthy, distract herself from her grieving heart.
After that day, things settled for the girl, and a few weeks later Miranda telephoned me and said that though she hated working and hated her job and hated the other staff and girls, she did like meeting the male customers, some of whom were dishy she thought.
A month later and Miranda was doing very well, socializing again, working still, though now for the gentlemen’s wear department, and I was not surprised to find that three months later her mother called and told me that little Miranda was engaged to her young man. I must admit I did feel a pang of sympathy for him, but Miranda had now learnt that bad behavior got her nowhere, and that what mattered to her even more than her own whims, was her love for him. And I do believe they are still married with a grown child very like Miranda was at that age.
Distraction is the thing, your key defensive strategy for helping both yourself and your love spells. Distract, distract distract. Allow only nice thoughts into you head about your loved one and your outcome and the rest of the time keep busy! Good luck and happy love spell results to you all.